Google isn’t forcing these websites to use ReCaptcha. There are plenty of alternative captcha systems out there. Honestly, I don’t see how Google factors into this equation, and I’m fairly anti-Google.
What's worse is that ReCaptcha isn't an honest CAPTCHA. Instead, ReCaptcha relies in large part on building a tracking profile. If you take privacy enhancing measures, such as clearing cookies and using a VPN, then you can't pass ReCaptcha. It will present you with a endless loop of "please try again" no matter your answer.
maybe there is something in your particular setup that is breaking it.