To tie it back to Kubernetes, you have the scheduler-does-not-schedule lessons, the ingress-not-consistent lessons, the autoscaler-killed-all-my-pods lessons, the moving-stateful-services-with-60TB-storage-size-took-20-minutes lessons and probably many more. It's like Churchills explanation of democracy: terrible, but better than all the alternatives. (at scale, at least)
There are infinite ways to fail, and only finite ways to succeed. That relative difference between infinite and finite is what Tolstoy is getting at. And this is a helpful perspective, because then success becomes less about trying to prevent infinite failure-points and more about doing a few finite things very well.
This is why you see advice from YC like — “don’t worry about competition”, and “talk to users, talk to users, talk to users.”