> Maybe it would help my understand if you could provide a chart relating the pronouns someone chooses with the pronouns other people are then allowed to use?
I think this is everything wrong with the world currently. Provide you with a chart, so I can justify using gender neutral pronoun?
https://apastyle.apa.org/blog/singular-they
This is barely more than a year old, is it already outdated? I am an asshole for daring to use “they”?