In a co-located datacenter with high performance network equipment this isn't true at all. The time from my CPU to a kernel bypass NIC to a cut-through switch to the exchange's FPGA gateway is in the low single-digit microseconds.[1][2]
[1]https://www.eurexchange.com/resource/blob/48918/ba7e2c5900f1... [2]https://www.arista.com/en/products/7150-series-network-switc... [3]https://technologyevangelist.co/2015/11/04/1-44-microseconds...