I have run small servers something like 18 years, my own personal something like 15-16 years. I still don't have much trouble. Only issue I had few years ago was spamhaus suddenly listing my IP as residental, that was annoying few hours.
You can test by sending email to a bunch of different mailboxes on different email providers, and then seeing which emails land. I've previously used GlockApps for this test and I've been happy with it, but you can probably find other similar services too. I'd be interested to know the results if you decide to test your deliverability.