> I think we can encourage people to be resilient, and at the same time take a second to think, and then not belittle someone’s interest just because it’s enjoyed by teenage girls.
The fact that someone can be offended or emotionally affected by someone else belittling their interests already means that they are not resilient enough. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to be able to call out some piece of cultural work as being garbage, whether someone likes it or not. People have always had a cultural hierarchy and it has served us well. If you choose to like some cheesy-ass artist then do it at your own risk and don’t be surprised if others avoid you and don’t invite you to their birthday party.