No, open source means they aren't user hostile. Contractual landmines and restrictions on running the software are user hostile.
2) let’s give some love to BSD, since GPL is hostile to my intention of selling modified software
Users aren't affected by any of the relicenses.
That kind of difference is pretty common in non-source-related things, e.g. you can use the API for your business, but you can't resell access to the API.
That's how you draw the line.