I liked Lolita because it was written from the point of view of the perpetrator. Can’t remember many other examples - “The Scarf” from Robert Bloch is one. I have doubts it would be published nowadays, too.
Another one is The Collector by Fowles. It reminded me a lot of Lolita, for example in both books the narrator refuses to take responsibility for their actions.
I believe Bukowski made such a novel. Don't know the title.