Sorry I still find myself reading your words the same way. If you can only determine if a fork was "demolished" by rating its popularity (i.e. market value or hashrate), you are back to the tautology:
"The most popular fork wins" seems to be your argument. But "winning" here means having higher market cap/more hashrate. And being more popular also means having higher market cap/more hashrate.
Let's say a fresh fork happens causing a chain split. Both chains have 50% market cap and hashrate. How do you measure "popularity" at this point so that your prediction of "the most popular fork wins" is actually helpful? ETH forking away from ETC was a very controversial topic at the time.
> And you didn't address the issue of how validation logic has changed many other times on coins, with the original continuing to mine for a while before sputtering out and dying.
This is exactly what we are discussing with ETC. ETH changed consensus and the original (ETC) continues to mine for a while before sputtering out (it is not dead... yet).
> Is "Bitcoin" dead? Nobody is running the original logic anymore.
Not sure what this is supposed to support? There are still Bitcoin Qt 0.8.x nodes on the network which are ~10 years old.