I don't understand. We are talking about
Docker Desktop for Mac, right? The piece of free-of-charge software that makes it a bit more convenient to use docker (which let's be clear is a
Linux tool) from a Mac?
If you don't like the way that convenience is provided to you, then yes, you don't need to use it, and that is not tantamount to telling you to give up and go move to Canada.
The developers have chosen to implement autoupdating.
That meant that in December they pushed a version which had a bug in it, and users received the bugged version. Then they pushed a version with a fix, and users received the version with the fix.
That doesn't seem worth throwing a tantrum over.