If you're making phone calls for armed response because someone is playing music, the problem might be with you.
If you're making phone calls for armed response because someone is playing music, the problem might be with you.
When I see statements like this I wonder if we experienced the same 2020.
Alright, let's say I have a neighbor playing loud music at 2am. I walk down, ask nicely if they'd turn it down. They ignore me. What then? What am I supposed to do from that point?
I personally am with Asimov: violence is the last refuge of the incompetent. It has little to do with whether you employ the violence/threat yourself, or call a man with a gun over to do it for you.
The correct course of action in almost all circumstances is "do nothing".
There are some good reasons to escalate a situation. I'm not of the belief that a noise disturbance is one of them.
So your real response is: when confronted with someone who refuses to engage with you on the level of a decent human being, just take it. This doesn't seem like the way civilization works to me.
You've edited in a nice little tidbit about "well sometimes you've got to escalate" but failed to provide where that delineation is for you. Loud music isn't it. What about gunshots? What about children screaming loudly? What about someone breaking in to your neighbor's? When is it OK to escalate?
This mislocates the point of escalation. The first point of escalation occurs when you arrive and the resident doesn't say the words "I'm sorry about that" followed immediately by turning the music down. The second more serious point of escalation (if there happens to be one) occurs when the police arrive and the same thing happens. In both cases the epicenter of escalation is within the person who won't turn their music down when lawfully required.
Everyone else has behaved reasonably and within the law and so can't meaningfully be said to have escalated the situation.
I've actually written about this very issue before:
https://sneak.berlin/20200628/the-problem-with-police-in-ame...
A society should be careful not to have too many laws; on an individual level one should understand clearly what it means to want something to be illegal (and what it means to refuse to obey the law, should you find yourself in a situation where you might be tempted to do that).
If it’s a once in a while thing where they’re celebrating or whatnot and it sounds like they’re unintentionally disturbing others, then it’s probably worth talking to them.
It has nothing to do with violence. The correct move is obviously to not re-engage, personally or by proxy.
> Isn't that the very reason societies develop laws and governments? To not have people using violence to get their way?
Quite the opposite. Laws are enforced exclusively via threat of violence, and the only thing that distinguishes the government from any other leadership organization is a claim to legitimate use of violence.