Passive investors who only invest in the S&P 500 didn't enjoy the ride up. But there are plenty of other indexes that people invest in passively that would have held TSLA prior to being added to the S&P 500.
I own SCHB, for example, which tracks the Dow Jones U.S. Broad Stock Market index, and would have owned shares in TSLA long before it was added to the S&P 500.
Simplest example I cited already: it becomes obvious that company X will default in short order, but it's a member of an index and the market will "buy" it anyway: I can short it (by borrowing from the passives and selling it to them next time they buy the index) and never have to cover since it's bankrupt. That's a simple example of a single-player active skewering the passives.
You can try to figure out what this means in terms of tracking error but it's kinda irrelevant to my point.
In the world as it stands today, passive ETFs and index mutual funds are a huge source of shares to lend. It's one of the ways they can lower the cost of the passive fund (or slightly increase returns above the passive benchmark), as the proceeds from lending shares are returned to investors in the fund. (Not always, but the good ETF operators do this.)