There are some other important differences:
1. In the US, most exchange operators are the counter-parties to all trades. They also interact with settlement and clearing services that ensure the verification of proper ownership and conveyance of securities. In the old days, something like a third of all trades failed to meet the three-day window because some part of this process would fail.
2. There are very very specific rules regarding how the orders are crossed (buy and sell side) and which orders take precedence in the (limit order) book. It looks like the MtGox guys didn't think this through and the trader in question took advantage of this naivete on the part of MtGox.
3. Most exchanges are "brokered" to facilitate trades while MtGox is more like a swap-meet. Brokered exchanges are more expensive to trade in but they have the advantage that brokers can "know" how to get price-improvement based on market conditions. In short, they are "informed traders" vs the "uninformed traders" you see in most post/notice markets. When the informed meet the uninformed, you see situations like this where someone takes the whole shebang home.
Personally, I find it amusing that the Bitcoin fanboys are clamoring for intervention here. It's almost like they are getting to the idea that a strong regulatory environment is a /good/ thing for the free market. If this were the cryptopunk/libertarian paradise that everyone dreams of for Bitcoin, there would be /no/ recourse.