There are people who work just as hard, if not harder who don’t escape terrible situations. If you don’t believe that I don’t know what to tell ya.
Your cleaner lady is such a silly example. If she was deported would you say she didn’t work hard enough to prevent it? Lol
And even if they did work hard your situation is entirely luck regardless since well, you didn’t help them escape with your hard work, yet you benefited.