I have just one more thought on the matter. I'm still early in my career, but in the years I've spent so far working with small business-types on security, and watching my colleagues, a month and a half is practically no time at all. I have little love for the big vendors, especially for behavior like this, but the reality I've seen is they often take months to do anything, and it takes further months for customers to actually patch their systems.
So I'm a little sympathetic to the desire to have an embargo of half a year or even longer, even with the downsides mentioned. Still, Theo clearly didn't actually breach his trust with Mathy, that's my mistake.