This article from Crucial probably explains the two arguments:
https://www.crucial.com/articles/about-memory/difference-bet...
But their conclusion is that practical latency has indeed decreased over the last 15 years.
[1] as in: access latency of the DRAM [2] as in: how long does a CPU memory read which is _not_ cached take [3] as in: how long does a CPU memory read on average take [4] as in: CL