I live in a pretty big city. I can't remember ever actually seeing a charging station for electric cars.
They're probably around. But I don't see them, so I don't know that they're around. This definitely makes me more cautious about getting an electric car.
We own a house, so we can put in an electric charger, but that would mean parking inside our garage. The problem is that our garage has been taken over by storage (working on that problem) and my woodworking. And when we do park the car in the garage, it's hard to get around the washer/dryer to get into the house.
We've already decided not to park the car in the garage except during big storms.
So even though we should be able to charge at home, we couldn't really do it well.
There are a ton of problems with how things are set up for the majority of people in regards to charging EVs. There's a lot of momentum to overcome.