I’ve even done it myself on occasion when I’m pretty sure I HAVE unsubscribed but I keep getting mail (from things I likely signed up for)
It happens. You have people in this thread explaining they hit the spam button when unsubscribe has a confirm step, even if they know they signed up.
There has also been long-standing advice not to hit unsubscribe on spam because all it does is confirm you’re there. A surprising number of people think that means never hit unsubscribe links at all, even in things you signed up for.
This is also not a user problem.
I admit I haven't managed a newsletter, but if I would either sign up people that don't want to either through lying or dark patters, or make it hard for them to unsubscribe, meaning any step other than link click (and maybe a yes/no confirmation), then I don't expect not to be treated as spam.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27470090
It’s to solve a particular user problem.
If you indeed meant a simple "Yes I'm sure" confirmation button, then I agree.
We’re talking about newsletters that only add people who sign up after a double opt in. We still have to manage this user behaviour.
Proactive pruning is the best tool that exists now. So we’ll have to figure out something new. One likely result is more paid newsletters and more moves to centralized platforms like substack which can deal with this.
I was paying attention, I was commenting on specifically:
> they hit the spam button when unsubscribe has a confirm step
Even if I've signed up for a newsletter, if I have to jump through (varying degrees) of hoops to unsubscribe, you are spam.
Where "required signup" may simply mean missing the tiny checked-by-default "don't not subscribe me" checkbox.
I have zero sympathy for complaints about marking "legitimate" newsletters as spam, when many of their ideas of "signed up" involve not unchecking a checkbox during a transaction. If you can't get someone to knowingly and enthusiastically agree to receive your newsletter, without any kind of subterfuge or dark pattern, it deserves to get marked as spam and end up in people's spam folders.
That’s the deal you made. Don’t get pissed if they keep their end of the bargain.
> workflow may be something like 1. Free music 2. required signup for band newsletter 3. Why am I receiving this newsletter? 4. Mark as spam
So as I said, the deal is clear: Free music in return for signing up for the band’s email list. Don’t get pissed at the band for holding up their end of the deal and putting you on their email list.
And if the deal is "free music! Also, check this clearly identified box that's currently not checked if you want to subscribe to our newsletter", that's also a legitimate subscription; some people will still mark that as spam, and that's just something newsletters have to deal with, but I have marginally more sympathy for that case because spammers have somewhat ruined the concept of expecting reasonable unsubscribe links in unexpected mail.
But if the deal is "free music! (well-hidden fine print: leave this box checked to subscribe to our newsletter)", and someone misses unchecking the box, that's spam, and it should get marked as spam, and that newsletter should have serious deliverability problems; that's spam filtering working exactly as it should work.
People will mark spam as spam, but they also have no hesitation about marking legitimate bulk e-mail they willingly signed up for but are no longer interested in as spam as well.
It is spam unless they signup because they want the actual newsletter.