I avoid these games too but mostly because it feels like work.

Systematic play is often the first step for beginners to gather experience from multiple similar situations. Nuance comes after that

I feel similar about this, although I have to say, that it disqualifies so many board games, that sometimes I wish, I would enjoy other games more. It is a bit sad. Sometimes friends want to play something and I allow them to convince me, just to not seem like the boring person, who "only wants to play their games".

I like those games I think. The alternative is chance, and that’s very dissatisfying.