The two-slit experiment.
1. Single photon still produces interference pattern!
2. Ask which slit photon passes - pattern disappears
This kind of explanation is common, and it has always bothered me, because it's the wrong sort of mental model.The interference pattern doesn't disappear "because we're looking", or "because we're asking", or "because we thought about finding the answer".
It disappears because in order to check which slit a photon passed through, we need some way of measuring that. To do so, we need some way to "see" the photon; to do that, we need to shine photons on it; and it is that which destroys the interference pattern.
The reason quantum mechanics is "weird" is because it (currently) is fundamentally impossible to invent a device to answer the question "which slit did the photon pass through?" without destroying the interference pattern.
However, that doesn't mean it disappears "because we're asking". The interference pattern is destroyed because our device, no matter what it is, will always interfere with the experiment (shining photon A at a photon B == "well obviously that would change the behavior of photon B"). Nothing more, nothing less.