The JIT engine is our solution to this, and ensures the CSS file is never large so it never causes these issues. We have done a ton of work to iron out bugs in the new engine between 2.1 and 2.2 so I would definitely give it a shot and see how it goes.
Consider even using our new CLI tool to compile your CSS instead of integrating it into your Ember build step — on the biggest project we’ve tried (over 400 template files, some thousands of lines long), the new CLI compiles the CSS in about 400ms, and incremental rebuilds when you save a template file take 3–10ms.