Answering this question to me is like asking “if you could have different parents, who would you choose?”

I recently turned 40. I realized I was not the same person I was at 20. But because of who I was at 20, and the decisions I made, I created who I am now. Just like you might wish your parents were different people, not abusive, or didn’t have certain behaviors. Or maybe wish your mom had met another person. But then you wouldn’t be you?

So there is not a current “me” that I feel can really answer these kind of questions IMO