I’m going to argue that Tinder just highlights your issues. If you don’t dress well, don’t work out and aren’t confident enough to approach any woman, you’ll probably suck at real-life dating too.
There was a study done by one of the large dating sites that showed 20% of male profiles get 80% of the matches.
Now, this skewed proportion does not obviously reflect real life. On dating apps a carefully curated, often fake persona can do well.
Personally I find dating apps in general to not be good places to find a partner at all. Ive had much more luck meeting women in the workplace or school etc.
@OP Easier said than done, but try not to make too much out of this. I think the recommendation for doing some activities with others is a good idea.
> Now, this skewed proportion does not obviously reflect real life.
I'd argue that it's exactly the same in real life.
> Personally I find dating apps in general to not be good places to find a partner at all.
Let's not forget that Tinder isn't about meeting a partner.