Not judging or anything though I know my tone might seem that way.
Not judging or anything though I know my tone might seem that way.
To the parent: Just send a validation email during the onboarding process. Don't create the account until they validate. And DO rate limit the number of these sent to any given address and the number of signup attempts by IP / fingerprint. Captchas are also good, but just for slowing fakes down.
This is literally the same thing the person you're replying to suggested.
I usually have no problem using my email address to sign up for things. And yes, I do know that emails will come.
Sometimes they are actually useful and I keep them. Often, I don't care and I just unsubscribe. I some not-so-common cases, it is spam, in which case I mark it as such and I am never bothered by it again.
Sure, it's a bit of extra work. But I would not classify it as risky business.
The cost for me to give a fake email is very close to 0, and the risk of getting spam emails or who knows what is much higher in comparison so why bother giving anyone my real email address? I mean I do give it out from time to time (you can easily find it if you want) I’m just speaking generally.