I guess theoretically it could sense when I operate the garage door and drive in and out, maybe if I take out the trash. But the fiber runs through conduit. And given they way the fibers are multiplexed down the street in practice its hard to infer much from that fiber.
My ONT (buried inside a BGW-320 that I can't bypass -_-) is fully inside as well. I think a lot of AT&T's setup is going this route as well from what I've read.
I'd guess the co-ax cable is probably a US-only practice.
If you're in the lucky situation of having true FTTP, then it's still very unlikely such fibre could be used as a 'microphone' because of the sensitivity and spatial resolution issues. It would also be pretty obvious it was being used because it would probably interfere unless they were very careful with bands. So don't worry, DAS isn't going to be used to listen to your voice. Much easier to do that with your phone!
My FIOS ONT has a coax out, so that's probably not entirely true.
We had to have a router with a fiber port to connect, then Ethernet via cat 5 or WiFi.