My biggest surprise around 35 was losing interest in almost all goals i had.

Partially it’s a life crisis im going to overcome, but in big extent it’s intellectual maturity.

You just see how silly and worthless most of the goals people fight for.

And most of the meaningful things in life, like family, health etc. are not really goals, but rather a process or part of life itself, part of you who liked to set goals in the first place.