I decided to not have children. Thing is, if nowadays people actually weighed all the cons and pros of having kids they would never go through with it. So all the people I know just go "all in" without thinking much, that's the only way it works, kinda. These are my reasons of not having children:
* The so-called "nuclear family" is destroyed. Divorce rates are through the roof, families torn apart and children end up as collateral damage and bargaining chips. The grand irony of liberalism is that it's designed to eventually self destruct.
* Chances that your kid will have issues like genetic, allergies, autism, etc are pretty high nowadays.
* Even if you sacrifice your life for the child and do everything right, there's a chance he will end up being an ungrateful bastard anyway.