Whats the best place to search for and read papers?
I was an on-and-off-again ACM member for 40 years, and one of the better publications was ACM Computing Surveys: https://dl.acm.org/journal/csur -- even older issues are pretty high value, and there are tons of references to follow.
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Sometimes I will just randomly see what has been posted to one of the areas I am interested in as well on arxiv.
Then often I end up just googling references in the paper to other papers.