Gender is not a spectrum (2016)
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I believe this is a generational phenomenon. Each generation of social activists needs to fight for something new, otherwise they wouldn't be progressive. Logically, the author is right: we're all non-binary, so the self-identification as non binary seems to make no sense. However, emotionally it is valid: it is the very recognition that one has various characteristics ascribed to both genders that makes one feel as non-binary. It's quite different from ordinary "cis" people who are non-binary without realizing that. I believe the older generation of feminists understands that, but is not willing to emotionally accept it as valid.
But the contrast is pretty large. Don't know what should be considered "cringe".
I don't agree with her on that (I think she found the logical errors, and wrote a good article, but I disagree with her conclusion), but that is what she meant anyway.
Also her target readers are feminist themselves, there is no need to anything there be cringeworthy, it is a feminist telling other feminists why one of their beliefs might be wrong.