Thanks again! This viewpoint has a lot of merit for sure. Please let me defend my claim on Terraform capability though. The real question isn't whether doing X is possible with TF; it's whether it's likely to be done in practice.

I am speaking from my own experience as a former front-end dev and making a bold assumption that there are many others like me. Whenever I'm using Terraform, even ready-made modules, I find myself thinking of things that I neither want to be thinking about, nor I need to be thinking about. Most of my brainspace is occupied by frontend intricacies; however I still do want to get control of the entire stack. The further some tool is from my primary competence the less capacity I have for various details about it. I want my webapps and containers to work somewhere, that's all. But when I'm facing a problem - a specific problem - I also want it to be solvable. Like autoscaling or load balancing. And I want it to be solvable in a way that's not against industry best practices. Because today I may have a team of 3 but in a couple years that may be a team of 300. I don't want to have to rebuild from scratch half way through. But I also don't want to waste time building something future-proof on day 1.