How could the volume between them be in any way comparable?
In your example (which is an exaggeration, FL600 isn't really used for commercial flights), airspace goes from 0 to 18 km above the surface of the Earth. The Earth's radius itself is approximately 6400 km. So airspace is the shell between 6400 km and 6418 km. Starlink operates around 6950 km. That's not "an order of magnitude more", it's completely comparable to airspace, so the space available to the satellites scales with the shell's thickness in almost the same way as airspace does.
Depending on the thickness of the orbital shell there might be significantly more vertical space available, but the surface area isn't much bigger at all. (It's actually only ~18% larger[1].)
[1]: https://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=%284%CF%80%28radius+of...
Just a note on this, The Starlink constellation is in low earth orbit, ~500km. There is still enough atmospheric drag at this altitude that most things will slow down and re-enter & burn up within months, not years.