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The next step after having a preference is expressing that preference.

Expressing preferences is great! Why do you equate that to whining, though?

are your peers "whining" about being forced to move to office? or are you whining about your peers?

The distance from whining to expressing preferences does not sound larger than that from whining to being toxic.

Ironically this is the most needlessly toxic phrasing of an opinion I’ve seen in this thread.

Hypocritically, it’s whining about the very topic it claims it’s toxic to whine about.

but how is that different what you are doing now?