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"I am reminded of this often when I see kids fight with their parents about how much time the spend on their phones / tablets / computers instead of doing other activities."

To be fair, some parents arent worth connecting with. I'm really happy for you if this isn't your personal experience.

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Parental upbringing does obviously affect one's personality, and it is fair to say many addicts do come from dysfunctional families - https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/debunkingaddiction/2020/7... ...

Most families are dysfunctional, to a greater or lesser extent. So many people come from dysfunctional families.

Sure; if the custom in your family when faced with problems is to drink or drug, then it won't be surprising if you take the same approach.

My limited experience of people from flawlessly functional families is that they tend to be - um - boring. I find people's flaws and weaknesses make them more attractive and interesting. YMMV.

I don't necessarily disagree but do you believe most people grow up in a dysfunctional family as outlined in the linked article as you stated?

Like having at least one parent with some issue that leaves the child with trauma? This is most people's experience?

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