Yet somehow I have managed to live half of a normal lifespan without such an "explosion" and maintain a happy and comfortable family, a clean criminal record, and have never caused anyone else serious harm or property damage.

The difference between you and I is that you believe I am an inconsiderate immature person for disagreeing with you, whereas I merely believe those with different opinions (even you) merely have a different outlook than me. I hope you are able to adjust your outlook to accommodate differing opinions of others without looking down upon them.