Recently switched to VSCode from Jetbrains IDEs on MacBook Air M1, amazed at how much faster my editor boots up, and generally also more responsive. Haven't noticed any memory issues either, I only have 8GB RAM
[1] https://blog.jetbrains.com/idea/2020/12/intellij-idea-2020-3...
Also, many NeoVim plugins are using component from VSCode, and the other way around.