Ask HN: For personal email, should you use a custom domain?
For personal email, should you use a custom domain you buy, a paid service like say fastmail, or a free service like Gmail or Outlook?
If you are just giving this address to the services you sign up for, friends and family then GMail/Outlook's reliability actually make them preferable to setting up an email server on your domain.
Fastmail et al sell their paid service on a promise that you see no ads, and the contents of your emails will not be scanned by the same automated services that Gmail/Outlook use. This doesn't translate into better sending/receiving of email and depending on who you are, you can decide how much that extra privacy is worth in terms of dollars.
Do remember that for "a free service" that you are not the customer, you become the product to be sold to advertisers in that situation.
You also become subject to the whims of "the free service". Should they decide to "alter the terms of the deal" you have only the options of "pray they do not alter them further" or "leave". And as to whether you can extract your data so you can "leave" intact, well, that is one of those deal terms where they set the rules, not you.
If you have to, you could use a custom domain with Gmail.