Even in categories where C/C++ are more performant, other languages are not that far behind.
If at all possible, we should not use memory unsafe languages for anything, especially something exposed as a server. No mater how careful you are, and with all the tooling available, majority of exploits in popular software happen due to memory unsafe languages.
[1] https://www.techempower.com/benchmarks/#section=data-r20&hw=...