This sounds like organizational problem, not a technical problem. Have you considered applying a new position for another employer that allows to run Ubuntu/Red Hat/etc. environments?
I recently built a desktop since my MBP would turn in to a jet engine if I try to spin up a non trivial docker compose and I went for windows because I wanted to game - started on Windows 10 and was appalled at the ammount of crap they had preinstalled and there with the OS. Windows 11 beta has been much better in this regard.
("But I didn't want the remote admin tool on my computer!" It's not your computer, it's the company's computer. And they wanted it there.)
FWIW, all this WSL stuff is mostly Microsoft trying to Extend, Embrace and Extinguish Linux.
My point exactly! I've been making that case for a while and I think I'm gaining some traction.
Eventually, my manager proposed paying for a VMware licence and I could run Linux on that.
I still had to suffer with multiple displays (the macOS host had to detect them before the VM could use them), but I finally stayed getting work done.