This exact scenario happened to me two months ago sans cancer and a wife. OP has my sympathy since my situation was not as challenging.
Unlimited PTO is a joke and you will be penalized or fired for exercising the “benefit”
Unlimited PTO is a joke and you will be penalized or fired for exercising the “benefit”
I would rather work for a company that gives a generous amount so that I can work within the parameters / not feel guilty. It also allows me to put a total value on a offer as well.
I'm not looking for a job at the moment, but FWIW, I would have to be under duress to take a job with "unlimited" PTO.