> The last time you bought milk did you lose or did the grocery store?
There's way more people involved in that supply chain then me and the store. This is an over simplification.
Outside of the obvious answer of "the cows" - factory farming has been destroying my home state causing huge problems in rural America. Also - the environment. Big time the loser there is the environment for literally any bovine farming.
> The last time you paid money for a hair cut
When I was getting my hair cut professionally I tipped a $20 because I knew the gal cutting my hair working at the midwestern mall Regis Salon was making jack-all. I knew this because I worked at Geeksquad with her boyfriend, eventually husband. If I were not to tip well she would be at-risk for making minimum wage for that hour - and since you can't support yourself on minimum wage I see that as her losing.
I've always tipped my butt off because I know without that they lose.
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So yeah - sorry... I anecdotally do see losers in the situations you described. I don't have to look hard to see them.