> I’ve always felt we would be better off querying at a higher level (say the logical db schema) and then the physical db schema is managed for us behind the scenes
But that's *exactly* what an RDBMS does: it handles the low-level record data-structures on-disk and presents to you a relatively cushy set of tables that you can design how you like them.
...otherwise please clarify what you mean by "logical db schema" vs. "physical db schema"?
Your talk of there being a "physical" design harkens back to those myriad "4GL" database platforms but those are all completely obsolete (despite what Progress's sales people will tell you). Y'see, database application developers haven't needed to concern themselves with physical records on-disk since dBase stopped being cool around 1990 (and the poor sods still using 4GL systems through the 1990s and even into the 2000s failed to see the industry shifts towards open databases (hence the "Open" in ODBC) so I don't feel too sympathetic for their cause.
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> I think this is a reason NoSQL became so widespread.
I attribute it to too many CS/SE grads who didn't take database-theory electives and so never got to properly grok SQL (never mind how SQL is horribly, horribly mis-designed!) but they got hired by cool startups but for 90% of their use-cases the notion of a database behaving like memcachd is very, very enticing.
You may have noticed that the hype around "traditional" NoSQL engines (like Redis, MongoDB, CouchDB, etc) started receding probably about 3-4 years ago (and PostgreSQL is cool again!) after all those companies that built their entire business around a NoSQL database suddenly find themselves being mature businesses that now need to hire normal business-people who need to get that business data into Excel, or an OLAP warehouse, or otherwise get real-time views of data in a tabular form - those are all things that will make upper-management decide to hire people to transition the company off NoSQL and back to RDBMS.
This isn't anything new: a couple of decades ago there was (and still is) a popular in-process key-value (i.e. NoSQL) database called Berkeley DB[1] that had plenty of use-cases and applications as a more flexible alternative to some stock dBase library - or as the years went by: Microsoft JET (aka Access MDB). Though in this case, the funny thing is that dBase is also "NoSQL" because application programmers have to query data by manually iterating over fixed-size records at known offsets in a one-file-per-table system - it's really primitive.
[1]Now also owned by Oracle, natch: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Berkeley_DB