what should it even mean to say that they do or don’t touch?
I don’t know much of anything about how smell works. Does it involve quantum mechanics in ways which don’t fall under “chemistry” (with chemistry being an implication of quantum mechanics) ?
I think “has to be understood in terms of quantum mechanics beyond just chemistry” is a reasonable distinction to make, and applies to the way these birds work.
Arguably, yes. You could call smell a chemical sensor, but it's not sensing chemicals through a chemical reaction. Instead, it's sensing the modes of excitation of a molecule, i.e. the distribution of available state transitions, which is inherently quantum mechanical.
It's possible that shape matters, too, as it does for other receptors. Either way, quantum mechanics is still critical for understanding the mechanism.
https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-21150046
Apparently, it's controversial.
Note that the diagram in Fig 1A is more complicated than the one in Wikipedia, because in this case the process involve some additional chemical steps.
If phosphorescence a chemical or a quantum phenomena? https://xkcd.com/435/
With some random search in Google I found this: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/chemistry/triplet-state It's somewhat relevant because the cause of phosphorescence and what is happening in this articles is caused by triplets. I want to highlight that if I'd want to ask more about these articles, in half of them I'd ask a Chemist and in the other half a Physicist. (In both cases, one that is specialized in these things that are between the fields.)
I suppose it comes down to emergent phenomena: what's the lowest-level concept you HAVE to invoke to understand what's going on here? when you want to explain how taste buds work, you can talk about neural paths and chemical chains, and even though each of those things relies on quantum physics to exist, you don't have to invoke the concepts or objects of the quantum world to understand the phenomenon in question. but with this particular phenomenon, you do. you can't just explain how this works with higher level concepts, you have to get low down.