I don't see why two people experiencing red differently causes a problem for consciousness. Can't we both be conscious even with very different qualia?
I do not see how this is possible. If you can perfectly simulate me you can perfectly simulate any response I will give to any question about how I experience red. Moreover you will have better idea than I do because you could also simulate how my experiences of red will change with time as I gain more experience from seeing red or anything else really.