OTOH, while it's a PITA it's certainly one to which package maintainers are accustomed. autotools began to lose mindshare among younger programmers and with younger projects many years ago.
Both mean the project loses out on casual development -- ideally I would check out the "latest" code for the ecosystem, build it easily, verify my bug/problem still exists, make a change.
I'm not sure any friction at this stage is a good idea, so I hope the those with the experience of the codebase are making wise decision by changing the build process to one less widely available.
If your software is distributed as a source tarball, the build system follows established conventions like honouring $DESTDIR and doesn't do anything weird like download extra stuff from the internet, creating packages is super easy, at least with RPM.
Most of the time you just write out a bit of metadata, list your dependencies, use standard macros for your build system to do the actual building and then list the files that you want to use from the build (potentially putting them in subpackages), and that's it. RPM even supports specifying dependencies like pkgconfig(library) or perl(Thing) so that the actual package name that provides it does not matter.
I haven't done Debian packaging in ages so I don't know how it compares.