Yesterday, I asked a team member if they had QA'd my project. They said, "oh I wasn't expecting to QA your project."
Yet I told them in the standup that I needed them to QA the project and I tagged them in a story. Clearly paying attention...
During standup, I've also had people say "colmvp, you can go next" despite having already spoken.
And near the end, we often don't even remember who hadn't spoken.
I feel like standups work well for small teams, but in larger teams it just feels like it becomes impersonal and more of a thing to do to make yourself appear obedient to your manager.