Fair enough. "Crazy complicated" and "the professionals" are both intended as subjective terms. To ME this stuff might as well be magic.
Same as you can design a cpu in HDL and flash it to an FPGA. (The "Nand to Tetris" course seems popular) Same as you can write an OS. Same as you can write a compiler and/or interpreter.
Believing these things (and they're actually true!) gets us all away from learned helplessness. There's enough of that when it comes to actual silicone...
Nobody understands it all. _You_ understand as much of it as you choose, in the direction that takes you, as deep as you want to go. It's just work, a lot of it, but no more than that.