I understand now the difference is that you're willing to trust that Apple knows best for you, whereas I trust myself to know what's best for me. I accept that you see this as pro-consumer from your point of view, but from my point of view surely you can see it's not? We just want different things.
What helped me get it was your point about security and that you'll have a different attack surface and will have made different security trade offs to me. Thanks for sharing your point of view, I appreciate it.