Even then, you're not likely to win. As a centrist/apolitical, it's hard to "just grill" when the extremists on both sides consider compromise to be tantamount to violence, and will attack you for even suggesting such a thing.
My strategy is to block them on social media, and avoid them in real life. It's worked for me so far. I've surrounded myself only with people who don't consume themselves with political battles, and my world has been peaceful.
Let's not forget that the radical center is a thing.