Also, there's quite a bit of cash in savings accounts now, and rates are still low by historical standards. We'll see what happens when mortgages are above 5% again.
If you buy a house 10x your income and put 20% down, your monthly payments are 40-45% of your income before tax. That's a lot
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With taxes and insurance, those numbers change to 3x = 17% of gross and 30% of gross = 5.4x, assuming California tax rates. Things like emergency funds, retirement savings, etc. are included in the "housing should cost no more than 30% of gross" rule of thumb.
Quoting investopedia "Lenders prefer the front-end ratio to be no more than 28% for most loans and no more than 31% for FHA loans."
Lenders don't care if you can retire or if your kids can go to college, they care if you are likely to default on your loan. So I wouldn't take the front end ratio as personal finance advice.The 3x income housing advise in not related to the front end ratio. 3x income is the max you should borrow (according to the advise givers, you are of course free to disagree), the front end ratio is what you can borrow.
And even if by some miracle you save 2x for a 20% deposit, what bank will lend you 8x income for the rest ?
Complete fantasy