Mark Shuttleworth: Merging is the key to software developer collaboration
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Read the docs and hang out on the lists and you'll see a world of difference. Of course, trying it out for yourself makes it pretty clear, too. :-)
I'd say any system that allows easy branching and merging will make experimenting with your code much more fun.